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Who do you trade against?

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Who do you trade against?

“To be a great champion you must believe you are the best. If you’re not, pretend you are.”
Muhammad Ali

I was at the first Ali v Frazier fight.

When Frazier got tired of the rope-a-dope he grabbed both of Ali's hands and dragged him into the center of the ring.
At round 11 Frazier knocked Ali down but they never ruled it a knockdown.

Frazier won. It was the only fight I ever bet on -- I bet on Frazier.

But you could tell after that Ali would come back. He did not quit--until a few weeks ago.

I think as traders on a screen, that we never see this as a battle, just chart stuff and indicators flashing by.

I started on the NYSE floor where you could SEE your opponent.

Perhaps it would be better if a trader thought before hitting that send key that you might be betting against Goldman Sachs.

TB

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A rhetorical question????



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“To be a great champion you must believe you are the best. If you’re not, pretend you are.”
Muhammad Ali

I was at the first Ali v Frazier fight.

When Frazier got tired of the rope-a-dope he grabbed both of Ali's hands and dragged him into the center of the ring.
At round 11 Frazier knocked Ali down but they never ruled it a knockdown.

Frazier won. It was the only fight I ever bet on -- I bet on Frazier.

But you could tell after that Ali would come back. He did not quit--until a few weeks ago.

I think as traders on a screen, that we never see this as a battle, just chart stuff and indicators flashing by.

I started on the NYSE floor where you could SEE your opponent.

Perhaps it would be better if a trader thought before hitting that send key that you might be betting against Goldman Sachs.

TB

I assume you asked a rhetorical question. But still, I will offer my answer..... You trade against not one trader or one bank but against all, all at once. I view it as a collective conscience an entity if you will. You can't fight the masses. They are always right. Best one can do is hop on for a ride. Massive groups of people all together tend to act at a base level the vast majority of the time, at least up until this present day and, I feel into the foreseeable future. This base level lacks maturity by definition. So to deal with it well one needs a great deal OF maturity. For example dealing with children (low maturity). To be very effective with them one needs great patience (high maturity).

Ron

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Agree 100%.

If only it was still as simple as competing with guys in the pit waving hands and scribbling down orders by hand. How in the world the average trader expects to beat the pros (much less pros armed with proper firm resources) remains a mystery to me. One lap top armed with some moving averages and a stochastics or MACD? Really?

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IMO the average retail trader does not make money trading AGAINST someone but trading WITH. Of course you need a counterpart for your trade but this is not the question on any market you always have a flow of order in both direction it is called liquidity.

It is not for example because you have made a buy and a gain of let say 50T that the guy who sold them to you is an idiot. He may have a thousand good and valid reasons to sell them and just to mention a few: he is edging a position on option or physical market, he bought them 500T cheaper, he is re balancing a portfolio etc...

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This may seem harsh but it is a very good question.

Its a zero sum game in Futures. You win, others pay for that. Whether is a 0.0000001% drop in their overall portfolio income or a guy who has a girlfriend and screaming baby in the next room.

As a songs says 'were killing strangers so we don't kill the ones we love' and while true of any work in a world of finite available resources its more obvious in trading.

The way I deal with it is I give a very large part of my profits to charity. I spend as much time as possible organising help for people, particularly those who may go on to help others. I don't care about anyone who just wants more 'more' dreaming of being a soccer prince etc.

In my case I'm trading for someone else and that motivates me which is in itself self-serving. I work on commission in a way though its all my own money. Seems to work ok and I don't get 'success anxiety' or other embarrassing "first world" dilemmas. I'm not Colombian. If things seem bleak or I'm sad I know directly from this constant reminder that I am by birthright of my passport better off than most of the world anyway.

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So I can clear my thought better, I feel there is a difference in stock buying where all can benefit from a great company (unless one is short) and futures, where unless you are a commercial, you are taking a speculative zero sum position.

One short. One long. One contract. One winner. One loser.

I just took a short position in the YM at 17599. Someone went long. My target is 17565. If it hits that target I will earn $3500.00 That does not mean one person will lose that. They could lay the trade off on someone else.

My main reason for speaking of the "against" scenario is that I see many new traders take positions without regard for risk, as if the computer is going to hand over cash like a broken slot machine.

They don't think they can lose. They move stops AWAY from their initial risk. I have a stop at 17628. I will eat the loss and move on if I get stopped out.

My goal is to follow my plan. I hope that newer traders can do that as well.

TB

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The biggest factor most traders are trading against is their own mind trash.

I have a very good system that works with very good expectancy. All that is left is to execute. Easier said than done sometimes.

As to the counter party to my trades. I don't give them a second thought and could care less about them. Some big fund or trading desk doesn't give a shit about me, why should I care about anyone else that has joined the game? Life and trading are brutal that way. There is zero room for any altruistic thoughts to enter your head while trading.

YMMV


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I'm more of the mind retail trading is about trading where the market is going.
The counterparty imo, is mostly the big funds and hedge funds which move the market.
How the stock market is a sham for the working and middle class. 53 percent of Americans have no money in the stock market, including retirement accounts. 62 percent of all US wealth owned by top 5 percent.
It would probably be different if I was a big player in the markets, then I would feel
like I'm eating up the retailers would have to deal with that.

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I think a retail trader is trading against himself. We don't move the market. We just tag along. Consider as an example, a trend day. The price keeps going up and up. It's like an unstoppable force of nature, but I don't make money because I didn't have the courage to get in. There is no manipulation or trickery, just an unstoppable trend. I fail to see the usefulness of the zero sum argument, even if it is true. The way to make money was to pull the trigger and get into the trade. The only thing stopping me was my psychology.

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