NexusFi: Find Your Edge


Home Menu

 





Which is more common on BMT? Modesty or Hubris?


Discussion in Psychology and Money Management

Updated
      Top Posters
    1. looks_one bijeremiad with 4 posts (4 thanks)
    2. looks_two Quick Summary with 1 posts (0 thanks)
    3. looks_3 Itchymoku with 1 posts (4 thanks)
    4. looks_4 patidar with 1 posts (0 thanks)
      Best Posters
    1. looks_one Itchymoku with 4 thanks per post
    2. looks_two grahamg with 3 thanks per post
    3. looks_3 bijeremiad with 1 thanks per post
    4. looks_4 Zondor with 1 thanks per post
    1. trending_up 1,305 views
    2. thumb_up 12 thanks given
    3. group 5 followers
    1. forum 8 posts
    2. attach_file 0 attachments




 
Search this Thread

Which is more common on BMT? Modesty or Hubris?

  #1 (permalink)
 
bijeremiad's Avatar
 bijeremiad 
San Francisco, CA
 
Experience: Beginner
Platform: IB
Trading: Stocks
Posts: 412 since Jul 2011
Thanks Given: 286
Thanks Received: 346

From Seth Godin:

When you're seeking to succeed with your art, it's helpful to see how those before you have done it. And so the conference [trading forum] was invented. The ones where recently successful internet entrepreneurs tell their stories are particularly popular right now, but you can certainly find designers, novelists and others that are generous enough to talk about how they succeeded.

Some speakers at these events are brimming with false modesty.
"I'm incredibly successful and happy, it happened really fast and I have no idea what I'm doing." The appeal here is the same that works for the lottery. Someone has to win, it might as well be you, it's easy, buy a ticket.

Some speakers, on the other hand, bring false hubris to the table.
"This is incredibly difficult, I worked harder than you can imagine, and only a perfect storm of effort and connections that were created directly by me led to this moment."

The truth, of course, is a combination of both. "I worked really hard, back against the wall, thinking I was going to fail, almost did, and I got lucky." And that's like hearing that there's a lottery and the tickets are very expensive.

But it's true.

Visit my NexusFi Trade Journal Started this thread Reply With Quote
Thanked by:

Can you help answer these questions
from other members on NexusFi?
MC PL editor upgrade
MultiCharts
ZombieSqueeze
Platforms and Indicators
The choice of instruments to trade
Psychology and Money Management
Pivot Indicator like the old SwingTemp by Big Mike
NinjaTrader
Exit Strategy
NinjaTrader
 
Best Threads (Most Thanked)
in the last 7 days on NexusFi
Diary of a simple price action trader
20 thanks
My NQ Trading Journal
19 thanks
Just another trading journal: PA, Wyckoff & Trends
17 thanks
Tao te Trade: way of the WLD
12 thanks
Daytrading ES & NQ
9 thanks
  #3 (permalink)
 
bijeremiad's Avatar
 bijeremiad 
San Francisco, CA
 
Experience: Beginner
Platform: IB
Trading: Stocks
Posts: 412 since Jul 2011
Thanks Given: 286
Thanks Received: 346



Quoting 
there's a lottery and the tickets are very expensive.

That pretty much sums up learning trading. If it works out, awesome, but you have to spend a lot (time, money, effort) to see if your number gets called (one of the few that can avoid the pitfalls).

Visit my NexusFi Trade Journal Started this thread Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)
 
grahamg's Avatar
 grahamg   is a Vendor
 
Posts: 115 since Dec 2012
Thanks Given: 59
Thanks Received: 108

Seth Godin nails it as always!!

In reality its nearly impossible to tell the false hubris from the false modest traders but logic says its the false hubris in majority. The 'ol track record test is illogical also.. why post a track record unless you want people to believe you can trade.. in which case what is your incentive? Cool - if its to sell market education, but then why need to educate with that track record blah blah blah (check out this post )

There is a lot of good ideas on investing in Big Mike and Elite Trader, Trade2Win etc - however from talking to people I have come to know in the last year that actually grind a living out of day trading, none of them ever bother advising in online trading forums, or know of other day traders that do. This doesn't mean they don't exist, but ponder what percentage of what you read is actually making your path to success more complex with misleading information?!

If I was to give myself advice - every minute spent reading online trading forums could be spent reading markets (DOM or Charts), reviewing tape and mastering the skill of trading instead.

The saying 'I wouldn't join a club that would accept me as a member' comes to mind with online trading forums. Just to add another paradox to my response here.

US trading hours routine has me up late on the weekends here in Oz with nothing to do.. which is why I guess I am revisiting the online trading forums. We should come up with a standard procedure for rating trading advice

Vendor - PriceSquawk Audible Market Technology
Follow me on Twitter Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)
 
patidar's Avatar
 patidar 
Pergatory
 
Experience: Beginner
Platform: Smoke signals
Broker: Two cans on a string
Trading: Drums
Posts: 116 since Jan 2014


Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)
 
bijeremiad's Avatar
 bijeremiad 
San Francisco, CA
 
Experience: Beginner
Platform: IB
Trading: Stocks
Posts: 412 since Jul 2011
Thanks Given: 286
Thanks Received: 346


grahamg View Post
If I was to give myself advice - every minute spent reading online trading forums could be spent reading markets (DOM or Charts), reviewing tape and mastering the skill of trading instead.

Or at least for every hour spent on a forum, it should be matched with time on developing skill. "Research" aka procrastination, only helps so much after a while. Just need to get out and do it.

Visit my NexusFi Trade Journal Started this thread Reply With Quote
Thanked by:
  #7 (permalink)
 Itchymoku 
Philadelphia
 
Experience: None
Platform: corded black telephone
Trading: ticker tape
Posts: 2,894 since Apr 2012
Thanks Given: 1,683
Thanks Received: 3,681



best point is at 2:40 in

R.I.P. Joseph Bach (Itchymoku), 1987-2018.
Please visit this thread for more information.
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)
 
bijeremiad's Avatar
 bijeremiad 
San Francisco, CA
 
Experience: Beginner
Platform: IB
Trading: Stocks
Posts: 412 since Jul 2011
Thanks Given: 286
Thanks Received: 346


Itchymoku View Post

best point is at 2:40 in

That is a great quote:
[I]f I fail more that you do, I win. Because built into that lesson is this notion that you get to keep playing. If you get to keep playing, that means you get to keep failing, and sooner or later, you are going to succeed. The people who lose are the ones who don't fail at all and get stuck, or the ones who fail so big that they don't get to play again.
I don't know that trading has too many that "don't fail at all and get stuck". Maybe you could be breakeven forever, or go through episodes where you never blow up but never really produce sufficient income?

There are plenty who "fail so big that they don't get to play again."

Visit my NexusFi Trade Journal Started this thread Reply With Quote
Thanked by:
  #9 (permalink)
 
Zondor's Avatar
 Zondor 
Portland Oregon, United States
 
Experience: Beginner
Platform: Ninjatrader®
Broker: CQG, Kinetick
Trading: Gameplay Klownbine® Trading of Globex
Posts: 1,333 since Jul 2009
Thanks Given: 1,246
Thanks Received: 2,731

Neither hubris nor false modesty is particularly common on trading forums.

The most common attitude is uncritical and simplistic credulousness arising from the combination of limitations of understanding, financial desperation, and the need to believe that there is an easy way out.

This characterizes the vast majority of participants - who furnish the audience for those who use such forums to express their egotism or to exploit their audience for financial gain.

Of course, as Emperor of the Universe, MY hubris knows no bounds!

"If we don't loosen up some money, this sucker is going down." -GW Bush, 2008
“Lack of proof that something is true does not prove that it is not true - when you want to believe.” -Humpty Dumpty, 2014
“The greatest shortcoming of the human race is our inability to understand the exponential function.”
Prof. Albert Bartlett
Follow me on Twitter Visit my NexusFi Trade Journal Reply With Quote
Thanked by:




Last Updated on February 18, 2014


© 2024 NexusFi™, s.a., All Rights Reserved.
Av Ricardo J. Alfaro, Century Tower, Panama City, Panama, Ph: +507 833-9432 (Panama and Intl), +1 888-312-3001 (USA and Canada)
All information is for educational use only and is not investment advice. There is a substantial risk of loss in trading commodity futures, stocks, options and foreign exchange products. Past performance is not indicative of future results.
About Us - Contact Us - Site Rules, Acceptable Use, and Terms and Conditions - Privacy Policy - Downloads - Top
no new posts