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Pete Schweaty
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No, actually I have a 320d, of course not the power of an M3, but still enough power for German highways.

Nice. I have a 335. Looking forward to the new 4 series.

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I'm confused, how was walking away from your PC, after a fat finger mistake, doing the right thing? The right thing would be to get back in the trade immediately after your mistake, per your defined trading plan. Maybe you did not notice the mistake for a while?

You'll make mistakes a lot in trading. The WORST thing you can do is compound a mistake by making another mistake (in this case, your second mistake was not following your trading plan).

Or, maybe I understand your issue wrong...

Nope. You understand it correctly. I was just looking for some opinions on what traders with a little more experience would have done.

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I'm confused, how was walking away from your PC, after a fat finger mistake, doing the right thing? The right thing would be to get back in the trade immediately after your mistake, per your defined trading plan. Maybe you did not notice the mistake for a while?

You'll make mistakes a lot in trading. The WORST thing you can do is compound a mistake by making another mistake (in this case, your second mistake was not following your trading plan).

Or, maybe I understand your issue wrong...

He did the right thing because the fat finger made him angry.....if he was not angry after the event, then he should have just got back in...but doing it angry can be disastrous.

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I'm confused, how was walking away from your PC, after a fat finger mistake, doing the right thing? The right thing would be to get back in the trade immediately after your mistake, per your defined trading plan. Maybe you did not notice the mistake for a while?

You'll make mistakes a lot in trading. The WORST thing you can do is compound a mistake by making another mistake (in this case, your second mistake was not following your trading plan).

Or, maybe I understand your issue wrong...

From someone with very little experience trading- but fairly good experience in fat finger mistakes, I think the reason for walking away was not because of the mistake, but rather because of the mindset that the mistake produced. I'm guessing that under ideal circumstances (keeping your cool after a fat finger mistake) then to keep following your trade plan would be fine. But I don't think he compounded his mistake by walking away after an event that took him out of focus on his trading. I vote for walking away in that case.... maybe because that's what I do

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Schweaty. I love you salty holiday balls by the way. Maybe you could post a recipe?

First, having expectations about a directional market will kill you if you are not careful. Trade what is there, not what you think..or worse hope.

Second, Typical edge for even the best of us is very thin these days. You must pay attention to the details and totally master the stuff you actually can control.

Third, When stuff happens you'd be helping yourself to note the cause, improve what you can and move on immediately. Carrying emotional junk will weigh you down and prevent you from reaching the top.

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He did the right thing because the fat finger made him angry.....if he was not angry after the event, then he should have just got back in...but doing it angry can be disastrous.



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From someone with very little experience trading- but fairly good experience in fat finger mistakes, I think the reason for walking away was not because of the mistake, but rather because of the mindset that the mistake produced. I'm guessing that under ideal circumstances (keeping your cool after a fat finger mistake) then to keep following your trade plan would be fine. But I don't think he compounded his mistake by walking away after an event that took him out of focus on his trading. I vote for walking away in that case.... maybe because that's what I do

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My experience is the exact opposite of what you two recommend. I am usually MORE upset at when I don't follow my plan. If I make a mistake to get me off my plan, I try to get back on the plan as soon as I can.

Making trading decisions in an angry state is bad, I agree. But if OP is going to be so angry after a fat finger mistake - so angry and upset that he throws his plan out the window - he really should not even be trading.

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Schweaty. I love you salty holiday balls by the way. Maybe you could post a recipe?

First, having expectations about a directional market will kill you if you are not careful. Trade what is there, not what you think..or worse hope.

Second, Typical edge for even the best of us is very thin these days. You must pay attention to the details and totally master the stuff you actually can control.

Third, When stuff happens you'd be helping yourself to note the cause, improve what you can and move on immediately. Carrying emotional junk will weigh you down and prevent you from reaching the top.

Thanks for the advice, good stuff. Sorry but my Holiday Balls Recipe is a closely guarded secret.

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My experience is the exact opposite of what you two recommend. I am usually MORE upset at when I don't follow my plan. If I make a mistake to get me off my plan, I try to get back on the plan as soon as I can.

Making trading decisions in an angry state is bad, I agree. But if OP is going to be so angry after a fat finger mistake - so angry and upset that he throws his plan out the window - he really should not even be trading.

I agree with your earlier comment but only after he has a "Advanced" Avitar listing because until you master emotion of a simple mistake more mistakes will follow that trading day IMO. And honestly as we advance that trade is gone so what they'll be plenty more to come along

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Pete -

Ask yourself these two questions.


I made a fat finger mistake, and stopped trading for the day because I was so angry. Am I now more angry about the ff mistake, or the fact I subsequently lost out on a big winner? What if the market turned up after my ff mistake, would I be happy I walked away?

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Pete -

Ask yourself these two questions.


I made a fat finger mistake, and stopped trading for the day because I was so angry. Am I now more angry about the ff mistake, or the fact I subsequently lost out on a big winner? What if the market turned up after my ff mistake, would I be happy I walked away?

I think I am (was) upset because I sat there and watched the trade go on after I made a fat finger mistake. To be honest, if I had not made the mistake and the trade turned against me and hit my SL, I would not have been upset. The loss would have been acceptable and no big deal. It was just frustrating.

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