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 jamrock 
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if you find yourself posting here in this thread due to your trading then the best advice i can give is to just stop trading and thinking about trading for a few months and come back fresh with new ideas but please just stop trading

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Agree might be time to take a step back and re-evaluate some things. Take a Break> PaperTrade> then maybe a Prop account like TopStep or one of the other ones out there to try to hone some discipline.

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This is a good post, but I'm afraid I didn't get my point across too well. Probably because I'm so long-winded and try to get too detailed instead of just addressing a point.



So let me say it in a briefer way:



At the end of the day (or when I close a trade, whichever comes first), my account receives money if I have a profit, and it loses money if I have a loss. These are real funds. I could actually take out the profit, so long as I left enough for the margin requirement. This happens to everyone else, hedger, institution, HFT, retail, no difference.



The money I get is real funds and is taken out of accounts that have a loss for the day. Or, if I have the loss, the money that is taken from me goes into accounts that have a profit. All the debits equal all the credits, exchange-wide. The money is just being moved around the table.



This is zero-sum.



It's not like some other markets, such as the stock market, where value can increase or decrease with the value of the company.



Sure, the total amount that is on the table can and will change as more is brought in from the outside, or more is taken out, and this will fluctuate. But once funds are on the table, they are just moved around.



Remember, we are not actually trading real oil, nor stock indexes, we are trading contracts on oil and stock indexes. The zero-sum nature of our trading, in aggregate, is a mechanical or, you could say, an accounting matter. It's automatic, applies to all accounts equally, and is just in the nature of the way that futures exchanges are set up.



It's not a matter of good or bad, it's not something to have a preference about, it's not theoretical, it doesn't mean retailers have to lose -- it's just a factual matter of how all futures accounts function. And certainly, some traders can win consistently.



Bob.



I have a question with respect to this. Are there a set amount of contracts in the futures market for each individual traded symbol? Or do they create and kill contracts based on demand?


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I have a question with respect to this. Are there a set amount of contracts in the futures market for each individual traded symbol? Or do they create and kill contracts based on demand?

You're quoting from a post written over a year ago (this thread is pretty old), but OK:

Suppose you go into the market and put in an order to buy CL (West Texas Intermediate Crude). Someone else takes the other side with an order to sell. They are matched and you now have an open long position. Let's say you only bought 1 contract, although this applies to any number. The contracts are standardized as to amounts and dates of delivery.

When you and the seller had your orders matched, a contract to buy a certain amount of Crude on a certain date was created, and a contract to sell the same amount of Crude on that date was created. Neither contract existed before, and didn't need to: a contract is created by agreement of the parties. (The counterparty for each is actually the exchange, which means you are not tied to the person who took the opposite side of the trade, and are not at risk if they do not uphold their obligations.)

These contracts can then be traded with any other participant in the market. For instance, you can close your position by putting in a sell order. Someone will take the other side of it, and your long position will be closed out on the books. The other person (the buyer) in this case may have opened a new long position, or may have been closing a short by offsetting with a buy. Margin is put up by the parties to cover the mark-to-market debit or credit that is made to each account due to fluctuations in price during the day. The amount of margin is very small compared to the value of the crude that the contract is for, but the oil is not going to be delivered or paid for for some time.

Futures contracts are not assets and don't exist until the actual contracts are entered into. They disappear when closed out. The "open interest" (total contracts in existence) expands and contracts over time based on trading. If contracts are held until delivery, actual physical oil will be bought or sold based on the contracts that are held (x number of barrels at y price,) and actual real oil and real money (quite a lot of both) will change hands.

You or I will have closed out our futures positions (or our brokers will have closed us out) before that happens. (Well, unless we actually possess the actual oil or money and plan to go to delivery. )

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You are a very patient man Bob. I salute you.

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You are a very patient man Bob. I salute you.

I get wrapped up in these explanations and lose track of the time.

I think it's worthwhile to go over these basics sometimes, though. No one arrives at futures trading with all this settled and understood in their minds, and we had to learn it from someone else at one time too.

Bob.

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I get wrapped up in these explanations and lose track of the time.

I think it's worthwhile to go over these basics sometimes, though. No one arrives at futures trading with all this settled and understood in their minds, and we had to learn it from someone else at one time too.

Bob.

You certainly continue to teach me a lot @bobwest, I truly appreciate the experience you share on here every day. Not to mention the admin work you do. Cheers!

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Well, i'm back. You may remember me "catastrophic loss days". I really.....

BTW before I start...that has got to be one of the cutest Korgy pics I've seen. There's another one floating on the internet of a puppy that just finished a whole jar of jam and passed out the same way.

Okay...There's so much on this topic all over. I have to say to you if you're still around and any other's that are serious. Trading (retail) is a performance profession. It's probably one of the hardest things that I had to learn and still am learning. As someone that worked in the industry and will tell you that even guys like me are a dime a dozen that can't cut it. You'd think it was the opposite right? Well I'll be the first to tell you we are no different than the rest of you. We're human just like everyone else. After about three years I'm finally starting to find the traction that I worked hard for through all the emotions, sweat and tears in some cases. Literally so many times rubbing my greasy face and forehead in defeat, broke down and in total disappointment.

It was the psychological aspect that I couldn't get my head around. We aren't meant to be trading so to speak. I'll add that I had my own psychological hurdles attributable to my own individuality. You may have to find those of your own.There's plenty of info on this and I suggest reading up first to anyone "trading in the zone" forget who wrote it and guessing if the author was real or not. I'll tell you that it applies totally...Just like in professional golf, another part of m background, every player needs a coach. It doesn't matter if you're tiger woods...you need a mentor or a guide. It doesn't matter if that coach can't play a lick against your own game. Do you think Butch Harmon could out play Tiger even in his prime...NOT. It's the guidance and the eye/experience to see what he needed to do do and work on. Second read and listen to any and everything from Dr. Brett Steenberger. I've seen his name flashed on Futures IO already and I can't say enough how much that man has changed my mental aspect. Just listening while I'm driving again and again. I don't even have to be practicing the exercises he recommends. It just resonates after so many times again and again.

I needed a break after pushing so hard for sometime after I did nothing but force myself to learn and break myself down again and again full time, but it did help in ways. I don't recommend this approach to everyone...as I'm a beast for punishment...another nature of mine so I have to be mindful. I'll tell you the best my golf swing was, was after I stopped playing and practicing for a few years. Everything just came together, just connected and I was hitting the ball so solid, drives to chips...even the put. FYI did you know that the swing is the same all the way down the clubs fundamentally. A lot transfers into trading that I take from the game. I don't play or haven't swung a club in over a decade, but it gets to the point that I practiced in my sleep/dreams. Another thing the amateur doesn't realize. I still do to this day...I can't control it. Just happens.

So when I took a break and let my mind relax from the pushing it started to connect naturally, although the pushing did help. I was at a place where the only option was to incorporate a hard stop each and every time into an edge. I mathematically or psychologically deducted that was the only way for me to make things happen...I problem solved. I journaled and made influential posts with word to tape to the mirrors/walls. I trade FX and I find it arguably one of the hardest vehicles to trade against equities and such, but it's all come together and I don't mean that by the end all be all. That is the quickest way to become a relic in trading. The stop I use is so tight that people wouldn't believe possible that I could make the risk/reward ratios. If you told me that I would've said bullshitt you liar.

This is a game of odds and it's not about this trade or that trade. It's the series of trades that my edge brings me. Man, I'll tell you that there's times that I have trades turn around from three or five points and I get stopped out. I'll let it happen depending on how things are for me that week. I still feel kinda lame when I let a seven point gain reverse, but what I'm really after is the ten or more. Although that's something I still work on as I size up more throughout the coming years. So it's the series of trades throughout the week. Not the one and only or even the two or three or whatever. When I get stopped out or seems like I'm going to, I tell myself literally it is what it is. I have no control what-so-ever. IT IS WHAT IT IS...This is my favorite thought.

I just saw this thread and hopefully you are still trading and others like you are reading my experience and find it helpful. Hopefully I didn't ramble and I'm not the most eloquent with the written word. I feel comfortable telling all this here since it doesn't seem like a shitt-hole like forexfactory or something. We're all human.

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Well, i'm back. You may remember me "catastrophic loss days". I really hate to come on this forum just to beg for help, but I am truly at a loss and am contemplating giving up trading the /ES, something that has consumed my life for nearly a year now. I'm not usually so pessimistic or dramatic, but I am truly lost and have no faith. I'm doubting everything I know, and this may very well be my last post so i'm pouring it all out.

I just cant get it. I have weeks, like last week (1/7/18), where I am immensely profitable, followed by this week, where I have lost almost every trade for 3 consecutive days and been margin called. This cycle has repeated itself many, many times. I sim trade until I am profitable for weeks, and then I switch and can't replicate the results.

I took advice on my last post ( I now trade on a 7500 volume heiken-ashi chart instead of 30s, and aim for 3-X point targets with a minimum 2-1 risk reward ratio. I've studied al brooks price action and his H1/H2 method, and have read Anekdoten's ET thread in which he details price action. Despite the pictures, I no longer really use indicators and trade solely off price action. I don't I suffer as much from overtrading anymore; I believe that almost every entry I take has good signals. These methods have helped me become a better trader... on some days.

It seems every week I go negative, I identify problems and solve them, yet each recurring week new problems spring up; my portfolio is akin to a boat that is being continuously shot and sinking as I try to patch holes.

My strategy in a bull trend is as follows; I identify trend, using price action. Next, I wait for a retrace of at least a few points depending on market conditions. Once I see the first bar with HH/HL I will set a stop by 1-2 ticks above the high of that bar. Assuming the market moves in my direction, I let my profits run as far as possible while moving my stop to BE or higher. I exit when I begin to see trend exhaustion. I'll also use basic patterns, like triangles, as well as trend lines and S/R lines. This strategy is fantastic on some days, but I've become convinced some days are just untradeable. I try to completely avoid trading in chop.

One of my biggest (current) problems is not being able to find viable entries. I really still don't whether to use limit or stop buys; I've tried both and they have their pros and cons. I use a HH/HL method, similar to a 123 reversal pattern; this means on a 7500 vol chart often I am too slow to catch moves, and whole retracements can begin and end before I get an entry signal. I refuse to chase for obvious reasons; as a result, in strong trends I often miss out the the entire movement because there are no retraces for me to enter on. I end up just trading in chop, every time. My stop buy is often triggered by a fake out that immediately backs off and triggers my stop, though this may just be due to a small stop.

I never seem to know when trends end, and never seem to know when the market will stop ranging. I attribute my down days to to lower trading ranges and markets more susceptible to chop and unpredictability, which is inevitable. I don't know what to do. I'm attaching images of my last three days. Many of the trades are clearly bad trades, as a result of my impatience, something i need to work on. Maybe I do still over trade. The 3 point gain today was a sim trade; I seem to do much better in sim, on a consistent basis. Last week I averaged 3 points a day sim trading.

In summary; I'm lost at sea in a boat with more holes than I can patch, and have lost hope that the boat will ever sail again. I genuinely appreciate everything this forum has given me and apologize for the long rambling and whining. All advice is greatly appreciated, as I may just give the /ES one last shot. I will take any help I can get, so feel free to PM me.

I don’t know if you’re still active, but my suggestion would be to spend a few months to a year, locating a single pattern that you can recognize and trade.

Just one pattern, and to make your life easier perhaps only spent two hours looking for it during trading hours. Spend the weekends looking through charts to locate that singular pattern. Learn all about that pattern, learn the environment in which it goes in a predictable manner and when it does not.

Spend a year on it. Once you can recognize that pattern, then you can actually have someone code up an automated strategy for you or that simply alerts you when that pattern condition is present.

But you got to spend a few months to 18 months to really grasp that pattern. And only play that pattern only trade that pattern. When you do this you’ll start to Devine when the pattern fails and overtime will be able to troubleshoot why the pattern fails, and you’ll also know when you have a good trade in front of you and have the confidence to take it.

It’s hard for us. It’s about consistency, discipline, and that’s almost impossible. That’s why a lot of us try to automate these strategies. But one way to manage discipline and to manage patience in ourselves in this path were on, is to limit your time trading during market hours if you’re still struggling.

Don’t spend, all day behind the screen, tell yourself that you’ll spend just two hours waiting for and looking for this singular pattern condition that you spent prior a few months studying and locating, and only play that pattern for a year, spend two hours in the morning, 930 to 1130 looking for that pattern, if it plays out, take it, if it doesn’t close the computer go do something else. Do that for year. that will force discipline, but also force you to only look for that opportunity.

Overtime when that pattern is present, it will seem to you like the sun, because you understand it and by its formation, you can see everything else. But it takes time, a year or two years three years on a singular pattern. Don’t deviate.

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